Archives for May, 2009

Stress Out Wedding

Posted on May 12, 2009 under General Info, Musing, Wellness | No Comment

i am pretty sure that if you were planning for a wedding .. that is about to happen.. you must be really stressed by now.. like I am.  Sure things are falling into its places.. but not everything right..??  You still can’t confirm the guest list.. and you can’t decide on the flower.. and now the brides maids are calling up to say.. that they may not be able to come.. due to personal reasons.

And what about the demanding outlaws.. who insist.. that you listen to her… or her sisters..?? Arrrrghhhhh..!! yes.. you agree with me eh.   So what do one do..??  You can’t please everyone.. that’s lesson #1 .. so what I suggest.. is for the spouse to be supportive.. come up with some common consensus.. and not make the wife think that she has to take care of everything .. and every issue.  Step up .. husbands…!!! and tell the wife .. that you will take care of your parents.. and she will take care of hers.  A wedding is to be enjoyed..now .. breath in.. and breath out.. and go for a spa.

Planning A Wedding To An Affair

Posted on May 06, 2009 under Musing, The Man, Wellness | No Comment

Not you .. silly.. your spouse.  Yes.. while you are busy planning your wedding .. you might be ignoring your spouse.. and pushing him to another woman’s arm.. who may be more fun than you are.. at this very moment.  Yes.. that’s the cheating spouse’s common excuse.  And if i could do it every time.. when i hear such excuse from anyone.. i would definitely smack them.

While your friends and family can see the cheating signs.. most spouses can’t .. because they are way too busy planning their dream wedding.  So if you are putting too much time and energy into your perfect wedding.. now is the time to stop and reflect.  Weddings can be simpler .. and less perfect.. but once you ignore your spouse.. and send him to another woman’s arm.. there will be no wedding.

So g/fs .. the truth is harsh.. but once he starts cheating on you .. that’s it.. it will come back again.. even after the perfect wedding.  So now is the time.. to sit back.. and think.. of what you really want.