Marrying Again..??
Posted on Jan 11, 2009 under Cheong Sam, Gown, Musing, Wardrobe | 1 Comment
In the chinese cultural .. woman who were married before.. and divorced or became a widow.. is slighted .. when they wanna get married again. My sister.. who was married once.. but didn’t have a proper wedding .. decided to have one during her second marriage. For her, it wasn’t even the slightest worry because her then future mother in law didn’t know she was married before. Had she known.. i’m sure.. she wouldn’t get a wedding dinner and all (that was the culture) back home. But she didn’t wear a wedding dress.. now a red “kwa” .. but she was in a cheong sum during her wedding dinner.
So what are your thoughts about those who are marrying again .. for the second time..?? or for those like myself.. who already have a kid with the man.. and only getting married now..?? Strange as it might seems to some.. but getting into the whole process .. of a white wedding and all.. is it necessary..?? As a mother to a young daughter.. i am of course, like all other mums.. and want to see my daughter get properly married. But for myself.. truth be told.. a lot of folks will agree .. that we can dispense of all the novelty.. and the commotion. What are your thoughts.. ?? about marrying again situation .. or those who already have kids with the man..?? Practicality versus — ??
